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Talk About In A Healthy Relationship

Communication is the key to a healthy relationship. However, many people aren’t certain what they should be communicating about. Spend time talking about a variety of topics to grow together as a couple and to prevent your relationship from becoming stale.

  •  Your Daily Activities

All of your conversations don’t have to be earth-shattering. Spend time talking about your day-to-day activities. Discuss what time you woke up, what you ate for lunch, or what you discussed with a co-worker, and help your partner understand what happens when you’re apart.

  •  Money

Talk about your budget. Discuss your saving and spending habits. If you combine your finances, set some financial goals and discuss strategies to help you reach those goals.

  •  Places You Want to Explore

Start a conversation about the places you’d like to visit. Whether you want to travel to your grandmother’s house or you want to go on a cruise around the world, a discussion about travel can spark a lot of new conversation.

  • Emotional Growth

Share some information about your emotional growth. If you notice you’ve become wiser, less reactive, or more compassionate, share that with your partner. Point out the emotional growth you see in your partner as well.

  •  Individual Goals

It’s healthy to have individual goals. Whether you want to lose weight, learn how to prepare Chinese food, or learn how to line dance, set some goals for yourself and discuss those goals with your partner.

  •  Spiritual Beliefs

Start conversations about your spiritual beliefs. Be willing to listen to your partner’s beliefs and be open to talking about the similarities and differences in your beliefs.

  • What You’re Watching on TV

Although watching TV isn’t an active way to grow together as a couple, discussing what you’re watching can help you learn something new about one another.

  • Politics

You don’t have to agree on politics in order to have a discussion about it. You can learn a lot about your partner if you have a conversation about politics. Any healthy relationship should allow each partner to feel respected enough to share an opinion, even if it opposes the other partner’s opin

  •  Goals to Address as a Couple

Discuss the goals you want to reach together as a couple. All healthy relationships should include shared goals for the future. Whether your goal is to volunteer at a homeless shelter together or save enough money for a new car, working together to reach your goal can help you stay close as a couple.

  •  Your Past

Your partner doesn’t need to know every skeleton in your closet. However, sharing information about your past can be very helpful. Talk about your childhood, past experiences, or obstacles you’ve overcome. You can also share how much you’ve learned and changed over the years.

  •  Your Values

It’s important to share your values with one another. Talk about your priorities in life. It’s important for your partner to know how you feel about work, family, education, friends, and leisure time. Let your partner know what types of things you value the most and what changes you may want to make to ensure that you’re living according to your values.

  •  Your Dreams

Daydreaming together can be a great activity in any healthy relationship. Discuss dreams you had as a child, dreams you’ve let go of, and dreams you still hold onto.

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The Science: How Stress Destroys Your Appearance

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The Cortisol Connection

What is cortisol?

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  • Released during perceived threats or ongoing pressure
  • Useful short-term (helps you respond to danger)
  • Destructive long-term (chronic elevation damages body)

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1. Breaks down collagen

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  • High cortisol accelerates collagen breakdown
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2. Triggers inflammation

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3. Disrupts skin barrier function

  • Healthy skin barrier retains moisture, keeps irritants out
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  • Result: Dry, flaky skin, increased sensitivity, worsened conditions

4. Reduces blood flow to skin

  • Stress diverts blood to vital organs and muscles
  • Skin receives less oxygen and nutrients
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  • Decreased collagen production
  • Impaired skin barrier recovery

Visible results:

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  • Dull, sallow complexion
  • Increased fine lines
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